New Zealand clinical psychologist, writer and actress
The stress of cheating on my wife is making me ill – but I can no longer suppress who I am
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/apr/23/stress-cheating-on-my-wife-making-me-ill-can-no-longer-suppress-who-i-am
I used to love sex. But my boyfriend’s premature ejaculation is turning me off it – and him
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/apr/16/i-used-to-love-sex-but-my-boyfriend-premature-ejaculation-is-turning-me-off-it-and-him
Motherhood has changed my wife’s body – and I’m no longer attracted to her: I love her very much, and think she is beautiful, but I sometimes struggle to get an ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/mar/26/motherhood-changed-wifes-body-im-no-longer-attracted-to-her
I love my boyfriend but I’m losing interest in sex. He’s too vanilla!: I don’t want to leave him. Must I suppress my own desire?
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/mar/05/i-love-my-boyfriend-but-im-losing-interest-in-sex-hes-too-vanilla
My partner and I still have sex. But is she only doing it out of kindness?: Things were great at the start. Less than two years on, she seems to be losing ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/feb/27/my-partner-and-i-still-have-sex-but-is-she-only-doing-it-out-of-kindness
I’m 70 and have never been able to bring myself to orgasm: I am able to climax during intercourse – but touching myself does not bring satisfaction ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/feb/20/im-70-and-have-never-been-able-to-bring-myself-to-orgasm
Billy Connolly on old age: "It's a cunning ploy that awaits you. The surprise is f**king nerve-racking. That suddenly you can’t walk any more. Can’t run ... Show more www.irishtimes.com/culture/2023/10/03/billy-connolly-old-age-is-a-weird-and-nasty-surprise-i-dont-know-if-we-should-tell-people-about-it/
My partner’s lazy son is ruining our sex life: We used to have an amazing time in bed. Then my 18-year-old stepson started hanging around the house …
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/16/my-partners-lazy-son-is-ruining-our-sex-life
My libido has shot through the roof since I stopped breastfeeding: I can’t stop thinking about sex, and fantasies about women and men other than my husband are ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/23/libido-through-roof-since-i-stopped-breastfeeding
Since I admitted to a foot fetish, my wife will no longer let me near her feet: It felt like a way to connect but now she has withdrawn from me ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/jan/09/foot-fetish-wife-no-longer-let-me-near-her-feet
I would like to stop wearing condoms. How can I raise this with my lover?: I am more than happy to get tested for STDs – but I don’t want my partner to feel ...
theguardian.com/society/2024/jan/31/i-would-like-to-stop-wearing-condoms-how-can-i-raise-this-with-my-lover
I love casual fun – but seize up sexually in a serious relationship: Now that I want to start something deeper with a new partner, I feel that telling him what I ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/dec/05/i-love-casual-fun-but-seize-up-sexually-in-a-serious-relationship
I had a baby 14 weeks ago – and I’ve never felt less sexy: My husband and I used to be well-matched in our sex drive, but after the birth of my second child my ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/nov/28/i-had-a-baby-and-ive-never-felt-less-sexy
I crave penetrative sex – but my husband suffers from premature ejaculation: I’ve always accepted that’s just how he is wired but it bothers me that I’ve gone ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/dec/20/i-crave-penetrative-sex-but-my-husband-suffers-from-premature-ejaculation
My orgasms are barely perceptible – and I am losing my libido: I still feel excitement during sex but the climax is very disappointing. What is wrong with me?
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/dec/12/my-orgasms-are-barely-perceptible-and-i-am-losing-my-libido
I don’t like the way my partner smells: It’s not that he smells bad – I just have a negative physical response to it. Could this have a deeper meaning?
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/nov/21/i-dont-like-the-way-my-partner-smells
How can I tell a new partner that I urinate when I ejaculate?: I would like a sexual relationship. But it feels awkward to discuss my leakage before we get ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/nov/14/how-can-i-tell-a-new-partner-that-i-urinate-when-i-ejaculate
I am highly sexual – but my husband never comes on to me: The fun has gone out of our relationship and he gets very defensive when I try to talk to him about it
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/nov/07/i-am-highly-sexual-but-my-husband-never-comes-on-to-me
Will my genital herpes mean I never have sex again?: I tell men about my condition and they never stick around. I don’t know what to do
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/31/will-my-genital-herpes-mean-i-never-have-sex-again
My wife says we can only have sex at weekends – and it must be spontaneous: I love her and find her even more attractive than when we met. But I can’t live with ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/24/wife-says-only-have-sex-at-weekends-must-be-spontaneous
I may never see my wife climax again – and the thought makes me really sad: Four years ago she told me she would take responsibility for her own pleasure and ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/10/i-may-never-see-my-wife-climax-again-and-the-thought-makes-me-really-sad
Billy Connolly: Old age is a weird and nasty surprise. I don’t know if we should tell people about it
irishtimes.com/culture/2023/10/03/billy-connolly-old-age-is-a-weird-and-nasty-surprise-i-dont-know-if-we-should-tell-people-about-it/
Billy Connolly’s most intimate interview yet (by his wife): ‘Comedians never used to worry about what was correct to say. You said it, and soon found out’
theguardian.com/culture/2023/sep/30/billy-connolly-interview-pamela-stephenson-connolly
Not the Nine O'Clock News was first broadcast on this day in 1979.
The satirical BBC show, which starred Rowan Atkinson, Pamela Stephenson ... Show more
Why do I always cry after orgasming with my partner?: The sobbing doesn’t happen when I masturbate to climax - and it didn’t happen with previous lovers ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/oct/03/why-do-i-always-cry-after-orgasming-with-my-partner
My partner and I used to have amazing sex. Then he came out as asexual: We had a great sex life, but intercourse has become a rarity and is no longer so ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/sep/26/my-partner-and-i-used-to-have-amazing-sex-then-he-came-out-as-asexual
My exhibitionist girlfriend likes sex with the curtains open: It is a new relationship and I am finding it difficult to tell her that this makes me uncomfortable ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/sep/19/my-exhibitionist-girlfriend-likes-sex-with-the-curtains-open
My boyfriend is instantly aroused – and climaxes without touching me: I wish he could maintain an erection, but he is sleep-deprived, stressed and drinks too ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/sep/05/my-boyfriend-is-instantly-aroused-but-climaxes-without-touching-me
My wife has lost all interest in sex. We haven’t made love for three years – and she won’t get help
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/aug/29/my-wife-has-lost-interest-in-sex-and-she-wont-get-help
Will I ever have sex? When I tried I couldn’t get an erection and the girl told all her friends
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/aug/22/will-i-ever-have-sex-when-i-tried-i-couldnt-get-an-erection-and-the-girl-told-all-her-friends
My partner says he doesn’t fancy me, because we are both too ‘old and wrinkled’: We are in our 70s and have been together for more than 30 years ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/aug/15/my-partner-says-he-doesnt-fancy-me-because-we-are-both-too-old-and-wrinkled
My partner’s vagina has atrophied – and she is struggling to reach climax: Fifteen years since she last had sex, and following a hysterectomy ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/aug/08/my-partners-vagina-has-atrophied-and-she-is-struggling-to-reach-climax
I recently got sober – and have stopped enjoying sex with my husband: We used to have sex while drunk or hungover, but now I realise his foreplay is rough and he ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jul/26/sober-stopped-enjoying-sex-husband-foreplay-rough
Gallery: Billy Connolly having a rare time at the Lonach Gathering and Games over the years
pressandjournal.co.uk/fp/past-times/6068038/billy-connolly-loves-lonach/
I have a generous new sexual partner - but I can’t get him to climax. Am I failing him?
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jul/18/i-have-a-generous-new-sexual-partner-but-i-cant-get-him-to-climax-am-i-failing-him
I would like a partner – but I can’t imagine revealing my body to a man again: My sexual confidence has plummeted as a result of ageing and a mastectomy ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jul/11/i-would-like-a-partner-but-i-cant-imagine-revealing-my-body-to-a-man-again
My husband turns me on – but I can’t stay lubricated during sex: I wonder if antidepressants could be the cause and, if so, what I should do to address this?
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/aug/01/my-husband-turns-me-on-but-i-cant-stay-lubricated-during-sex
My husband watches porn during sex. It makes me feel useless and unattractive: I am starting to feel seriously resentful towards him. After three decades ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jun/06/my-husband-watches-porn-during-sex-it-makes-me-feel-useless-and-unattractive
I’ve met a man and want to start a family – but I’m scared of penetration: I’m 26 and in love. How do I get over this fear?
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/may/25/ive-met-a-man-and-want-to-start-a-family-but-im-scared-of-penetration
My wife said her ex was a better lover than me – and we haven’t had sex since: That was almost 20 years ago and we now have separate bedrooms. Is there any way ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/may/16/my-wife-said-her-ex-was-a-better-lover-than-me-and-we-havent-had-sex-since
My wife only wants sex after drinking – and I feel rejected and frustrated: Our sex life has waned since having a child, but now when my wife initiates ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/apr/18/my-wife-only-wants-sex-after-drinking-and-i-feel-rejected-and-frustrated
I have never been able to climax during sex. Is my masturbation style to blame?: Sex with my first partner has been great for both of us, but I would like to ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/may/30/i-have-never-been-able-to-climax-during-sex-is-my-masturbation-style-to-blame
I’m scared to tell my new partner about what happens when I orgasm: My disability is affecting my sex life and I haven’t slept with anyone in 11 years ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/apr/11/im-scared-to-tell-my-new-partner-about-what-happens-when-i-orgasm
I am married – but I am having sex dreams about a colleague: I’ve recently become friends with someone at work and have developed feelings for him ...
theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/apr/04/i-am-married-but-i-am-having-sex-dreams-about-a-colleague
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